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Friday, December 11, 2009

Slave.

Last night my Daddy and I talked about roles. It evolved from a discussion about one of his exes. I have been thinking lately about my role. If you asked me when my Daddy and I first started seeing each other I would have without hesitation said I was his sub. I do believe that I was his sub then. However learning more and more about the roles that are in the BDSM culture I realized I didn't exactly identify as a sub. I felt like I identified as a slave. I feel in my heart that I am a slave.

When we discussed it last night my Daddy said some things that made me realize that he is a Dom though. It doesn't surprise me, I know who he is, I know how he feels. I don't think that he needs to be my Master in order for our relationship to work. It may not be the norm, but hey, labels are just labels. It's funny, because I can still say we are in a D/s relationship, Dom/slave!

There are many different reasons that I feel this way, it wasn't some random idea that just popped into my head. It is something that I have thought long and hard about. Submissive may describe some of my characteristics TOWARDS my Daddy, however it does not define my role. It took me a while to even formulate my thoughts on this.

I asked him a while back if he had ever been a 'Master' and he said when he was younger and didn't really know what it meant/didn't fit the role. I do wonder if he will ever become my Master. I don't know if he will, there is a mindset that he is set in. A healthy one. It is a Dom's mindset though, not a Master's mindset. This is fine with me. I love him with all my heart. I can still be his slave without him being my Master. He is my Dom and I am wonderfully in love with that. Our relationship works [splendidly] and we are happy. I wouldn't want to go tinkering around with it in order to fit other people's labels/thoughts.

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Please keep in mind that everything I write is my opinion and what works for me. Please don't ever feel like I am trying to force my ways on you, or that I feel your way is wrong. Things are different in every M/s, D/s, T/b relationship. What works for me may not work for you or the next person. It is all I know and therefore all I can write about. Please feel free to comment and let me know how your relationship or opinion differs though. :) Much love!

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