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Friday, August 21, 2009

Prompt- Thoughts

As a bottom when you think of a partner for sadomasochistic play what images, thoughts and desires spring into your mind?

I think the most important thing for me is that my partner is caring. Which may sound strange, but I don't want to play with someone who has no care for me and my well-being. I want them totally sadistic, don't get me wrong I am a masochist after all, but they need to not want to hurt me in a bad way. I don't need an arm broken or scars because someone is careless.

That being said, aftercare is important too. [Blankets!!!] I think that communication is key in any relationship, but even MORE so in BDSM relationships. Failure to communicate can wind up with someone massively hurt [physically or emotionally].

I want someone who can not only wield a whip, but who can care for me afterwards. Even if I was playing and not in a relationship with that person, I would need them to care about me after it. Or at least have my Daddy there so he can care for me after it. That element, for me, is needed.

If it is just play, I need them to be respectful of the boundaries that my Daddy and I have. So respect is another key ingredient.

Hmmm, I feel this post is choppy. Oh well. Take from it what you will.

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Please keep in mind that everything I write is my opinion and what works for me. Please don't ever feel like I am trying to force my ways on you, or that I feel your way is wrong. Things are different in every M/s, D/s, T/b relationship. What works for me may not work for you or the next person. It is all I know and therefore all I can write about. Please feel free to comment and let me know how your relationship or opinion differs though. :) Much love!

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