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Friday, August 21, 2009

prompt- safeword

Do you have, avoid or just tolerate the use of safewording in BDSM scenes?

I have a safeword. It is kayak. When I realized I needed a safefword, I sat down with my then boyfriend and we had a long discussion about what it should be. It was actually a really funny conversation. Our biggest concern was that it had to be something that wouldn't come up in sex. So finally a determination was made that kayak would be our safeword.

It has always been my safeword, even through other guys.

I think having a safeword is important. Having it doesn't mean that you'll use it. I can count on one hand the amount of times I have had to use it. My Daddy can read me extremely well, but that doesn't negate the need for the safeword.

Daddy has asked though that I come up with a "yellow" safeword. A safeword to let him know to slow down but not stop. I am still thinking about it, because kayak comes so easy, I need something else that will come that easy. I need to drill it into my head, like kayak is drilled. I need to come up with it soon... I'm thinking I might just stick with yellow. I don't know when I would say yellow in sex...

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