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So, sorry about the lack in posts the past couple of days. I know a handful of you follow me on twitter, so you'll know that I haven't been feeling well these past couple of days. I've let the blog suffer and I'm sorry about that.
Also, I wanted to unveil this when everything was ready, but... My blog is moving. :) I bought my own domain and hosting and everything. I thought that everything would be up and running already, but due to a bit of misinformation I had to restart yesterday. So hopefully by this weekend everything will be up and running.
I contemplated about doing jonsbabydoll.com. The domain is available... However, jonsbabydoll is something that doesn't have all the anonymity in the world. It is how I identify myself online almost everywhere. So, in case I need more anonymity in the future, I needed to find a different domain name.
So, I thought and thought, and realized that I truly love blogging. I love sharing my life with you readers. All twelve of you. :) [No, it used to be twelve, I am extremely fortunate that my numbers are increasing. Thank you so much for reading] I have gotten emails from people who read my blog, and with each one I am truly touched.
So, my new domain is thebloggingslave.com. It fits the very essence of who I am. As of now it is not up yet. So don't worry, I won't leave you behind. Everything will be forwarded there and I'll be excited and everything will be new. :)
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
RTT - Books
Jodi Picoult is an amazing writer. The first book I read of hers was My Sister's Keeper. Due to the fact that I have had a few family members with cancer, I know the terminology really well. She did her research and her characters were real and not just one dimensional. That's what I love about her. Her books continue to have real characters. So that's why she is on this list twice. She's fabulous and I will continue to read everything that she puts out.
Here's another Picoult book. Since moving in with Daddy I haven't really kept up with her, so I've fallen behind. Bad reader me!!!
Here's one that just looked interesting. I like books that revolve around M/s dynamics. It looks like a good read.
I am verrrrrry passionate about sex ed in schools. I will definitely be reading this book, whether I find some library that has it or order it. I think it would be an awesome book to add to my collection. :)
Doc Johnson's Pleasure Ball Review
So, Doc Johnson's Pleasure Ball is something that I have been procrastinating on reviewing. I haven't procrastinated on using it, just reviewing it. It's because I think it is slightly strange, which is the exact reason I gave SixtyNineSecrets as to why it would be a great product for review.
It's just not the usual kind of vibrator. It is extremely discreet in terms of looks. You could definitely leave this out if company was coming over and no one would think twice. It would be a huge plus if you have roommates, or still live at home with parents, or if you just don't like obvious looking sex toys. It is made of TPR and plastic and is about the size of a softball. The TPR is the lighter color [mine is lavender] and that is where the button is that will turn your ball on and switch it through the vibration speeds. You can use all sorts of lube with this, but I don't really see the need because you aren't inserting this toy. After you are finished using your ball cleaning is easy, just soap and water or toy cleaner. Storage-wise, you can throw this in a drawer or your toy bag without much worry. It doesn't pick up fuzzies or anything [which is a huge plus for me personally].
It's also pretty quiet. It is a little bit louder than a cell phone vibrating. If you have some light music or the television playing you wouldn't be able to hear this outside of a closed door. It is on the lower end of medium when it comes to sound.
Now onto the good stuff... The vibrations are actually fairly good on this ball. When you turn it on [just a push of the button] the vibrations start out fairly strongly. You push the button again to get it to the second speed. The second speed is what I consider a high medium for most vibrators I've tried. Push the button again to get to the third and final speed. The final speed has some oomph behind it. Press the button once more to turn the ball off.
So, now onto the using aspect... This is what was strange. The vibrations are strong, when I am holding the ball in my hand I can feel the vibrations so well. When I am using it for pleasure, it just fails to hit that right spot; at least in the conventional way. I usually masturbate on my back or when sitting in a computer chair [yay internet porn...]. When I tried using my pleasure ball on my back or while sitting it just didn't do anything for me. I couldn't get into it. However, this isn't a regularly shaped vibrator, so I had to change my regularly depended on positions. I sort of straddled the ball, and turned it on the highest vibrations, then scooted down more into a more of a laying down [on my stomach] position. This seemed to be the best position for me. It was slightly strange, and it took a while, but it worked eventually.
However, while it may take a while to get off using this, it is great for massages. The vibrations are a bit buzzy for massages, but when you are giving a sensual massage to get your partner in the mood, the type of vibrations rarely matter. The vibrations can be felt through the whole ball, so no matter how you are rolling it, you are getting the vibrations. It is pretty awesome for this.
So while I don't think I'll be using it too often for my own pleasure, it definitely adds to the start of sexy twosome pleasure.
Oh! And as a side note, this is completely waterproof. So splish splash, have some fun in the bath! Water fun just isn't my thing, so this isn't my cuppa tea for that, but if you adore playing in the tub or shower, this is water approved!
So, head on over to SixtyNineSecrets to pick one up for yourself. Or look at other vibrators that they offer.
It's just not the usual kind of vibrator. It is extremely discreet in terms of looks. You could definitely leave this out if company was coming over and no one would think twice. It would be a huge plus if you have roommates, or still live at home with parents, or if you just don't like obvious looking sex toys. It is made of TPR and plastic and is about the size of a softball. The TPR is the lighter color [mine is lavender] and that is where the button is that will turn your ball on and switch it through the vibration speeds. You can use all sorts of lube with this, but I don't really see the need because you aren't inserting this toy. After you are finished using your ball cleaning is easy, just soap and water or toy cleaner. Storage-wise, you can throw this in a drawer or your toy bag without much worry. It doesn't pick up fuzzies or anything [which is a huge plus for me personally].
It's also pretty quiet. It is a little bit louder than a cell phone vibrating. If you have some light music or the television playing you wouldn't be able to hear this outside of a closed door. It is on the lower end of medium when it comes to sound.
Now onto the good stuff... The vibrations are actually fairly good on this ball. When you turn it on [just a push of the button] the vibrations start out fairly strongly. You push the button again to get it to the second speed. The second speed is what I consider a high medium for most vibrators I've tried. Push the button again to get to the third and final speed. The final speed has some oomph behind it. Press the button once more to turn the ball off.
So, now onto the using aspect... This is what was strange. The vibrations are strong, when I am holding the ball in my hand I can feel the vibrations so well. When I am using it for pleasure, it just fails to hit that right spot; at least in the conventional way. I usually masturbate on my back or when sitting in a computer chair [yay internet porn...]. When I tried using my pleasure ball on my back or while sitting it just didn't do anything for me. I couldn't get into it. However, this isn't a regularly shaped vibrator, so I had to change my regularly depended on positions. I sort of straddled the ball, and turned it on the highest vibrations, then scooted down more into a more of a laying down [on my stomach] position. This seemed to be the best position for me. It was slightly strange, and it took a while, but it worked eventually.
However, while it may take a while to get off using this, it is great for massages. The vibrations are a bit buzzy for massages, but when you are giving a sensual massage to get your partner in the mood, the type of vibrations rarely matter. The vibrations can be felt through the whole ball, so no matter how you are rolling it, you are getting the vibrations. It is pretty awesome for this.
So while I don't think I'll be using it too often for my own pleasure, it definitely adds to the start of sexy twosome pleasure.
Oh! And as a side note, this is completely waterproof. So splish splash, have some fun in the bath! Water fun just isn't my thing, so this isn't my cuppa tea for that, but if you adore playing in the tub or shower, this is water approved!
So, head on over to SixtyNineSecrets to pick one up for yourself. Or look at other vibrators that they offer.
Friday, February 26, 2010
Dating and Fucking
I have dated three people in my life. I have never been a fan of dating. I always thought that those people in high school who bounced from boyfriend to boyfriend to boyfriend were sort of silly. I mean, I have always understood that dating was a trial for marriage. Really, that is what dating is for in my mind. [Or spending the rest of your lives together as I know some people don't believe in marriage]
My first boyfriend was when I was a freshman. We dated for over a year and a half. I've talked about him here before. He was the abusive one. While I didn't love him, and looking back I don't think I thought I would marry him. However, it was a relationship that [for high school standards] was long. At the time maybe I did think marriage was in our future... However, it wasn't something that just passed the time.
My second boyfriend was one of my best friends. He was a really great guy that I definitely could have seen a future with. However, we were HORRIBLE as a couple. Seriously, we were awful. We dated for around six months. It was an awful relationship, but we went to being best friends afterward. I didn't date him for 'something to fill my time with'. I thought there was a great possibility for a future.
My third [and hopefully final] boyfriend is, you guessed it, my Daddy! Obviously I believe [and hope with all my heart] that we will have a future. We have talked about the future. [Including the Tiffany's locking necklace that would make a beautiful 'wedding' collar... ehem...] We have talked about kids. We have talked long term.
So, many of you may be confused, because I have had more partners than boyfriends. That's because I put value on the term boyfriend. I have had fuck buddies. I have guys [and girls] I can call up if I want to fuck or play around. So many people I know would call those people boyfriends or girlfriends to feel better about hooking up with them. I am much more honest. If I don't see a future with us but still want to hook up? That's awesome, we can be fuck buddies.
I've had people look down upon me because I mess around with people who I am not in a relationship with. I laugh, because the people look down upon me for this almost always are the same people who have a different boyfriend/girlfriend every week who they fuck. Just because they fuck within a 'relationship' it is apparently okay. Even when that relationship has a shelf life of two weeks. It baffles me. It really does.
My first boyfriend was when I was a freshman. We dated for over a year and a half. I've talked about him here before. He was the abusive one. While I didn't love him, and looking back I don't think I thought I would marry him. However, it was a relationship that [for high school standards] was long. At the time maybe I did think marriage was in our future... However, it wasn't something that just passed the time.
My second boyfriend was one of my best friends. He was a really great guy that I definitely could have seen a future with. However, we were HORRIBLE as a couple. Seriously, we were awful. We dated for around six months. It was an awful relationship, but we went to being best friends afterward. I didn't date him for 'something to fill my time with'. I thought there was a great possibility for a future.
My third [and hopefully final] boyfriend is, you guessed it, my Daddy! Obviously I believe [and hope with all my heart] that we will have a future. We have talked about the future. [Including the Tiffany's locking necklace that would make a beautiful 'wedding' collar... ehem...] We have talked about kids. We have talked long term.
So, many of you may be confused, because I have had more partners than boyfriends. That's because I put value on the term boyfriend. I have had fuck buddies. I have guys [and girls] I can call up if I want to fuck or play around. So many people I know would call those people boyfriends or girlfriends to feel better about hooking up with them. I am much more honest. If I don't see a future with us but still want to hook up? That's awesome, we can be fuck buddies.
I've had people look down upon me because I mess around with people who I am not in a relationship with. I laugh, because the people look down upon me for this almost always are the same people who have a different boyfriend/girlfriend every week who they fuck. Just because they fuck within a 'relationship' it is apparently okay. Even when that relationship has a shelf life of two weeks. It baffles me. It really does.
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Ice Cream Cravings.
So, I have talked here about my family before. They don't really like my Daddy... Argh, it is frustrating. However, they also see that I've been with him for a while and he loves me and supports me. So, it's getting better.
My mom still says things though. I mean, I'm 19. I'm sure she didn't expect me to be in such a serious relationship at this age. Especially with an older man. So, she is handling it very well considering. She has gotten much better over time. She used to be... well her actions were sort of indescribable. She was definitely not open to it and did/said some awful things.
She has gotten much better though as I have said. Really she keeps her comments to a minimum. However every now and then she does say things. Last night I called her when I was walking to the convenience store. I went to go get some ice cream because I really wanted some. So when she asked what I was doing I told her. Her response? "Are you taking your birth control? Are you pregnant?".
Ummmm???? No. I just want some ice cream...
Since when has wanting ice cream meant being pregnant?
*sighs*
Whatcha gunna do?
My mom still says things though. I mean, I'm 19. I'm sure she didn't expect me to be in such a serious relationship at this age. Especially with an older man. So, she is handling it very well considering. She has gotten much better over time. She used to be... well her actions were sort of indescribable. She was definitely not open to it and did/said some awful things.
She has gotten much better though as I have said. Really she keeps her comments to a minimum. However every now and then she does say things. Last night I called her when I was walking to the convenience store. I went to go get some ice cream because I really wanted some. So when she asked what I was doing I told her. Her response? "Are you taking your birth control? Are you pregnant?".
Ummmm???? No. I just want some ice cream...
Since when has wanting ice cream meant being pregnant?
*sighs*
Whatcha gunna do?
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Sick Slave Girl
Since moving I have realized my immune system has not been kicking ass as much lately. I get headaches much easier and my stomach gets upset easier, just all around aches come around more often. It could be from the weird weather right now [going from 40s to 70s, rainy then sun then cold] or it could be from lack of things to do. Okay, I know that sounds weird but it has been a thought in my head recently.
Whenever I had a stomachache or a headache or some sort of sickness before, I still had work or school. Unless the sickness was major, I still had to get up and do my duties. Because I'm unemployed and my classes are online, I really can wallow in my sickness. I can take naps and baby myself. I'm not saying it's bad, because I'm taking care of my body obviously, but it is different.
I woke up in the middle of the night last night and got sick. It made for a restless night. I was tossing and turning and it just wasn't pleasant. When I woke up around 10 I could feel my body pulsating and aching. I would do somethings then doze on the couch, do somethings, then doze. I finally realized that perhaps taking an actual nap would help. So at 1:30ish I went to take a nap, and didn't wake up until after 5:30. Over 4 hours. That definitely tells you that I needed some rest. However when I woke up some of the aches were still there. Which stinks, but oh well. It is a much different way that I am approaching my maladies these days. If I found a job I know that I would start handling them the old way again. I wouldn't baby my body, I would just force myself to work through it. It's just different
Whenever I had a stomachache or a headache or some sort of sickness before, I still had work or school. Unless the sickness was major, I still had to get up and do my duties. Because I'm unemployed and my classes are online, I really can wallow in my sickness. I can take naps and baby myself. I'm not saying it's bad, because I'm taking care of my body obviously, but it is different.
I woke up in the middle of the night last night and got sick. It made for a restless night. I was tossing and turning and it just wasn't pleasant. When I woke up around 10 I could feel my body pulsating and aching. I would do somethings then doze on the couch, do somethings, then doze. I finally realized that perhaps taking an actual nap would help. So at 1:30ish I went to take a nap, and didn't wake up until after 5:30. Over 4 hours. That definitely tells you that I needed some rest. However when I woke up some of the aches were still there. Which stinks, but oh well. It is a much different way that I am approaching my maladies these days. If I found a job I know that I would start handling them the old way again. I wouldn't baby my body, I would just force myself to work through it. It's just different
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
E[Lust] #8
HNT Courtesy of Blue-Eyed Vixen
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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~
This Isn’t Play. . . BDSM and Rape - The very basic principle that we hold so dear in BDSM play, “Nothing without consent” seems to stand in stark contrast to a very common form of play, “Rape Play”.
Half-Full - When I get my ass beaten, is it as much for the sensation as it is for the “Good girl…I knew you could take that for me.” that I want so badly at the close of the scene?
House Party Part 2 -His wife walked by at one point and he cryptically asked her to "do what she did to so-and-so earlier". His wife disappeared behind me, but I felt her hands touching me and his cock as it entered me.
~ e[lust] Editress ~
Backseat Orgasms - We kissed lightly and without focus, both a sensual act and maddening at the same time. More, I needed more. In a blur I was on my knees on the seat, straddling his leg, his mouth latched onto one nipple and his fingers hunting for the key to undoing my dress pants.
~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~
Are You Watching Me? - A plan of devious proportions begins to form. Before this is over with, I will have forced you into a corner…forced you to act…forced you to give ME what I want.
See also: Pleasurists #64 and 65 for all your sex toy review needs.
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Erotic Writing
A story of FL
Contemplation
Cuddling
Floor Exercises
Good day for a milking
Goodbye
G-Spot Orgasms Galore - Part 2
Initiation
Logan
Mark. Confession #423
Mouth
Nothing says I love you quite like...
Playful and Dangerous
Play your part
Plotter
Splish Splash
The Library Hotel
The Secret I Couldn't Keep
Triple X
Three A.M. Surprise
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Anatomy of Desire (PT. Two)
Better Cautious Than Raped
Lingerie Tales Vol 1 An Obsession Begins
My life as a gamer's slave
Perplexed
Saturday Texting
So Simple
The Elusive Female Orgasm
The G Spot Mouse or How To Make A Woman Squirt
Transtastic: On Language
Kink & Fetish
A No Limits Slave?
Are Discipline and Punishment The Same?
BDSM Advice Series: Pet Play
Bondage 101—Part 1: Bondage Basics
Breaking the Demons
Dark/DirtyBlog Crush
Factory Doll
Hand vs. toys
I'm on a book cover: 'The Punishment List' by Abel
Kink
Men as sex objects
Rough Porn
Raleigh and La Fortress
Savouring the texture of my skin with his teeth
The Way They Look At Me
The Slut Chronicles #13 ~ The Auction
Whither the spankosphere?
Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor
Happy Valentines Day!
Hookers, Catholic School Students and Facebook
Lane Bryant Makes Puppies and Kittens Cry
Pussy Cosmetics and Vagina Myths
RTT - Shoe Edition
Pink and white!!! I love wedges. I never really have done well with other types of heels. I always end up flat on my face. I used to be able to walk amazingly in heels when I was in 6th-9th grade. Then some horrific thing must have happened because I couldn't anymore... weird right?
Aren't these just cute? I feel like I could wear them to a picnic or something. :)
Juicy. Mmm. Wedges. Sandals. Juicy. It can't get any better.
Shoes shoes shoes!!! Pink and wedges. With polka dots!!! I'm in love.
Monday, February 22, 2010
Contest!!!
Okay, so I love my readers, yes, YOU!!! I love you. Not in the creepy way, because I don't know most of you in real life. Anyway, that's not what most of you care about. You care about the details of this fabulous contest that I am holding. Okay, maybe not so fabulous for me, but definitely fabulous for the winner!
So, what is this contest exactly?
Well, it really does benefit me as much as it benefits you. I like people reading my blog. I know, I'm selfish like that. So I figured a contest would help me gain a few more readers. Some may think this is not cool, but I'm not requiring that you stay after the contest, but who knows, you may like here enough that you do stay. [That is my hope at least] So, my likes are satisfied because I gain more readers and your likes are satisfied because you get... a 25 dollar gift card to edenfantasy!!!!!
Whoa, 25 dollars???
Alright, it's not that much. However, it is enough to buy one favorite toys [at the moment] the gspot caress . It's also better than nothing! Not to mention, Edenfantasy.com really does have some fabulous toys for less than 25 dollars. They have a great selection process for narrowing down toys so you can find something you want. Also, EF has other stuff besides toys, like lingerie. Not to mention, EF has great prices. Seriously, they do.
Okay, enough chat about that, how about the details of how to enter???
There are many ways to enter.
1- comment on this post. You can tell me why you need the gift card, why you read my blog, why you haven't read my blog, why you will continue to read my blog, what you would do with the 25 dollars, why you deserve it, what your dog's name is, it doesn't matter. The content of the comment won't be judged, just the fact that you do comment.
2- Tweet about the contest. It doesn't hurt if you follow me either... Just make sure to use the hashtag #JBD and link to my site - http://bit.ly/a3H35F. Your tweet will count once a day, so you can retweet every day for up to seven entries!
3- Follow me. If you already follow me, you are automatically entered for this part. I have the handy button over there in the right hand side bar, so it's super easy to follow me.
Here comes the big entry part!
4- You can comment on three separate posts a day. From any month. Of course you can comment on more posts, but only three a day [on separate posts] will be counted. Which means that this can earn you three entries a day, for seven days, [Your comment on this post does not count for your three posts for today]
Alright, so let's say you did everything that was laid out above. You would have 30 entries!!!! That's pretty darn amazing. I know it may be a bit time consuming, but your 30 entries might beat out someone with only fifteen. I'm not saying you have to do everything. Someone who just comments on this could be the lucky winner, you never know. You don't have to do everything listed above. Like I said, I have motives for hosting this to get more readers. By encouraging you to read some of my later stuff you get to see my journey better and may be more interested in sticking around. :)
So, what is this contest exactly?
Well, it really does benefit me as much as it benefits you. I like people reading my blog. I know, I'm selfish like that. So I figured a contest would help me gain a few more readers. Some may think this is not cool, but I'm not requiring that you stay after the contest, but who knows, you may like here enough that you do stay. [That is my hope at least] So, my likes are satisfied because I gain more readers and your likes are satisfied because you get... a 25 dollar gift card to edenfantasy!!!!!
Whoa, 25 dollars???
Alright, it's not that much. However, it is enough to buy one favorite toys [at the moment] the gspot caress . It's also better than nothing! Not to mention, Edenfantasy.com really does have some fabulous toys for less than 25 dollars. They have a great selection process for narrowing down toys so you can find something you want. Also, EF has other stuff besides toys, like lingerie. Not to mention, EF has great prices. Seriously, they do.
Okay, enough chat about that, how about the details of how to enter???
There are many ways to enter.
1- comment on this post. You can tell me why you need the gift card, why you read my blog, why you haven't read my blog, why you will continue to read my blog, what you would do with the 25 dollars, why you deserve it, what your dog's name is, it doesn't matter. The content of the comment won't be judged, just the fact that you do comment.
2- Tweet about the contest. It doesn't hurt if you follow me either... Just make sure to use the hashtag #JBD and link to my site - http://bit.ly/a3H35F. Your tweet will count once a day, so you can retweet every day for up to seven entries!
3- Follow me. If you already follow me, you are automatically entered for this part. I have the handy button over there in the right hand side bar, so it's super easy to follow me.
Here comes the big entry part!
4- You can comment on three separate posts a day. From any month. Of course you can comment on more posts, but only three a day [on separate posts] will be counted. Which means that this can earn you three entries a day, for seven days, [Your comment on this post does not count for your three posts for today]
Alright, so let's say you did everything that was laid out above. You would have 30 entries!!!! That's pretty darn amazing. I know it may be a bit time consuming, but your 30 entries might beat out someone with only fifteen. I'm not saying you have to do everything. Someone who just comments on this could be the lucky winner, you never know. You don't have to do everything listed above. Like I said, I have motives for hosting this to get more readers. By encouraging you to read some of my later stuff you get to see my journey better and may be more interested in sticking around. :)
The contest will end Sunday, Feb 28th at midnight EST.
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